Instead we both started nit picking and keeping track of everything…
I started the “I Love You Because” frame in the bathroom and we write notes to each other.
We plan date nights each month. I plan one date night in and he plans the other. Here is the date night in jar I made him for Valentine’s Day.
Meal Planning. It’s important for me to make dinner for hubs. Having a plan helps me get food on the table each night. Now there is at least one day a week where he comes home and nothing is done. But, having a menu and the groceries allows him to make dinner or for him to take AG and lets me make dinner quickly. It’s important for us to sit together and talk about our days.
Date Night OUT. We’re lucky enough to have my parents living an hour away. They come once a month just to babysit. We go out sometimes just the two of us others, with friends sans baby. We look forward to our dates each month.